Relationships

The word "relationships" may seem like a scary word for people. However, in all honesy it's not that bad of a word at all. Some people have relationships with family, some friends, and others pets. No matter what kind of relationship you have, it is something inside of our heart that gives us comfort to know that we have a special bond with someone.
             Personally I have many different kinds of relationships. Some which are broken, and others in which are as strong as could be. I try not to let one relationship with someone affect the relationship I have with someone else. The most common relationship I have with people would be the day to day friendship. You can have this kind of relationship with many different people at once, not like marriage in which you share with one person. I love people, and I love to be around people, so I have a ton of friendships. However, I only have a select few of Best Friends. And when it comes down to it, no matter what the title is on the relationship it still matters. You are still affecting a life in some sort of way.
           And as every girl, I have a father daughter relationship. I've had a few actually ( moms been married a few times) but only one that has affected my life for the good. And that would be with my Dad. Although he is not my biological father and he is my god-father. The relationship we have is one of a father and daughter, and I would think we were related if I didn't know any better. This relationship gives me comfort in hard times, because I know no matter what, he is there. He's the best-friend that I know will never leave me. The one guy, that I know I can trust no matter what. And that's the relationship that everyone needs and wants.
         And with every good man, there is a good woman. And that is what brings me to the relationship with my Mom. Just like my Dad, she is my god-mother. But that doesn't stop her from taking me under her wing and treating as one of her own. She has sacraficed a lot for my sister and I. And in this type of relationship you can't help but feel grateful that you have someone there for you. A mother is a girls best friend. And in the last 6 months, she has become one of my very best friends. I have learned what it is to be truly loved, and her and my Dad have taught me that. The relationship we have, is special to me. And I treausure it.
        At this time I dont have a relationship with that special someone. But I know that when it is time for me to get married, that I want to have the type of relationship in which I take care of my husband. I want to be the best wife any lady could ever be. And even if sometimes we disagree, I want to be able to be submitted and agree through the disagreement. I believe that someday I could be a great wife and mother. Inside of me I know I have the potential to be like my mom and the First Lady of the church. And when that times comes,  I'll have the one relationship I have waited all my life for.
        The last relationship that I want to talk about it the relationship anyone can have with God. If you want the ultimate relationship, let it be with God. Because without Him, you cant have everything with everyone else. He has become my number, and if I make Him my number one, He will send me someone to be my second love. And it just takes patience and time.
   Needless to say, relationships aren't scary at all. It just takes time, to grow into who you want to be, and to become comfortable with who you are. I am learning to love myself more and more everyday. And in loving myself, my relationships with others grow.